Make 2015 a year of learning – ten simple tips for parents of young children

Experts from the Delaware Institute for Excellence in Early Childhood are available for interview to discuss simple steps parents can take to help young kids learn. Contact [email protected] to arrange.

1. In the morning, encourage your child to dress himself as much as possible. While it may be easier (and quicker) for you to put those shoes on, your child will learn valuable self-help skills that build his capacity to persevere when tasks are challenging.

2. While traveling to child care, play children’s music in your car and sing along! Your child can expand her vocabulary and other language skills needed to become a successful reader and writer.

3. When you have to wait, pull a book from your bag and read to your child. Waiting in line or for an appointment can be frustrating even for adults. By always being prepared for waiting, you can help your child stay calm and love books at the same time.

4. While you are outside, notice and label what you and your child see. Children learn to “read” familiar signs, such as stop and railroad signs, and begin to understand that letters are symbols for something. Younger children learn about the world around them when you say the names of various birds, animals, people and objects you see.

5. When you go to the store, prepare your child for what you will buy and not buy. Discussing that you are at the store to buy milk for dinner (and not candy) reduces the struggles that can occur in the check-out line and helps your child manage his own behavior.

6. While making dinner, invite your child to join you in the kitchen instead of watching TV or playing electronic games. Talk about the orange color of the carrots. Count out the silverware at each place. Watch the water boil for the pasta (from a safe distance).

7. Eat dinner together at a table, and talk about your day. Ask your child questions that helps her think critically, such as, “What did you like best about your day?” Beginning to compare and contrast are skills your child will need for math and science.

8. Include children in household chores, such as sorting laundry and picking up toys. Make these chores enjoyable by playing music, counting and matching socks and toys, and doing chores together.

9. Establish bedtime routines, such as bathing, cuddling, and reading a book. Young children learn how to manage their emotions and get along with others when they feel safe and secure in their routines.

10. Get plenty of rest! You are better able to see the learning opportunities in every day when you are well rested, eating well, and exercising. Remember that you need to take care of yourself in order to take care of your child.